Our Bedtime Discipline Routine

“It’s time for bed, slave,” says Mistress A.

I stop what I’m doing and come to the bedroom. I remove my clothes and kneel at the foot of the bed, ass in the air, waiting for what’s to come.

Mistress A holds out the leather wrist cuffs. I place my hands inside, and she secures the straps.

She picks up the heavy wood paddle — an old paddleball paddle with holes in it that she found at a secondhand shop — and walks behind me.

WHACK, WHACK, WHACK, WHACK, WHACK

Five sharp blows across my exposed hind parts. Maintenance strokes, that I earn just by having the privilege of serving Mistress another day.

“Who does the slave belong to?”

“To you, Mistress.”

“And what can your Mistress do to the slave’s body?”

“Anything she wants, Mistress.”

“Has the slave been a good slave today?”

I nod slowly.

“The slave brought me my coffee, helped with the dishes, and even fixed the espresso machine. I think he has been a good slave. But… the slave did talk back when I asked him to clean up his dirty coffee cups from his office.”

WHACK, WHACK, WHACK, WHACK, WHACK

My insolence has earned me five more blows from Mistress A’s unforgiving paddle.

“But since overall the slave’s behavior was good, I think he deserves a reward.”

She slides herself onto the bed in front of my face and spreads her legs. I am allowed to pleasure her orally. She moans as I bury my face in her pussy and lick her to orgasm.

“Very good, slave. Now what does the slave say?”

“Thank you for disciplining me, Mistress. Thank you for allowing me to pleasure you.”

For the last two weeks, this has been our nightly bedtime discipline routine. At the very least, I receive a maintenance paddling, a review of my behavior for the day, and either a punishment or a reward.

This routine has strengthened our femdom relationship in many ways. Every night, no matter what we’re doing or how distracted we are, we take time to re-center ourselves. My focus is realigned from the concerns of the day to Mistress A’s pleasure — the only thing that matters.

And it helps me to understand what Mistress’s expectations are in our relationship. For example, she has instituted a rule that I am to immediately kiss her body any time she finishes taking a shower. Twice this week I failed to follow that rule, and twice I was paddled severely for it. Obviously I didn’t understand how important it was to her, but the discipline quickly changed my mind.

Finally, it helps Mistress A to cement her role as sexual Dominant. In the past, I have become rather aggressive with wanting to give her oral pleasure while in chastity. But she has now stated that oral pleasure is a privilege, not a right. So I am only to do what she allows me to do during our routine. For example, this week I was allowed to kiss only her foot or her hand. This reminds me that anything and everything I do in our relationship is firmly under Her control and direction.

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